BalenĀ asks: “Is it possible to become fluent in a language only by listening?”
Episode Summary:
No, you can't become fluent only by listening.
- The Silent Period
- Children listen for years, soaking things up, but still take years of practise to produce coherent English
- Learning English by watching TV
- Immigrants are often silent for years…listening instead
However, listening is the most important skill, and I find myself spending more and more time working on it:
- The role of time
- Active vs Passive Listening
Resources Mentioned In Today's Episode:
- The āSilent Periodā in Language Acquisition: Truth or Myth? – a good article that summarises this topic
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Full Transcript:
Olly: Good morning, everybody. Welcome back to the I Will Teach You a Language podcast. Thanks very much for joining me today. Iāve got a question for you: What skill — speaking, listening, reading, writing — would you say you spend the most time on at the moment in your language study? Is there just one? Or, is it all a big mix?
Now, imagine you could only choose one skill to work on for the next year. Which one would it be? Interesting question, right?
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All right. Very interesting question today. Letās hear it.
Speaker 2: Hey, Olly. Itās me, Balan, from Kurdistan, Middle East. And, I want to thank you for doing what you do, because what youāre doing is really, really great. And today Iāve got a question for you. Is it really possible to become fluent in any language just by listening? Because, I have heard somewhere from some teachers that it is possible to become fluent in any language just by listening. So, I just want some of your thoughts on that. And, thank you. Keep up your great job.
Olly: Hey, Balan. Thank you for a very cool question. Right, well, Iām going to start off by saying, āNo. Itās not possible to become fluent just by listening.ā Because letās think about what that means for a second. Becoming fluent is about speaking. Itās about being able to speak fluently. Now, yes, you have to be able to understand, and you have to be able to listen. But, fluency, spoken fluency is all about exactly that. Itās speaking. And there are so many micro skills associated with speaking that have nothing to do with listening, that the idea that you can only listen to a language and then suddenly one day become fluent, you know, itās crazy. It doesnāt make any sense.
Now, thatās not to say that listening is not extremely important. In fact, itās not even to say that listening is not the most important skill. And, actually for me, these days the more time I spend doing this language-learning thing the more time I spend listening. More than anything else, actually. In fact, I think listening is the ultimate skill. Because, by listening you learn. If you can understand stuff, then you can then have access to that stuff you learn in your speaking. So, listening is hugely important.
And, I think a lot of people — and Iāve been guilty of this in the past myself — a lot of people who are kind of rapid language learners, if you like, people that go out there and learn languages quickly, or learn a lot of languages, they can be guilty of learning to speak but not necessarily do much else. You know, itās very possible to memorise a bunch of stuff, a bunch of words and phrases that you can use to say quite a lot, but actually when you sit down to have a proper conversation with someone in the language, you may be not able to do — you know, you donāt understand anything.
And that, of course, comes from a neglect of listening. So, listening is super important. But again, the idea that you can become fluent just by listening is crazy. I mean, consider for a moment what it would be like to learn a language for a few years, and youāre sat there, and youāre just listening every day, and then all of a sudden having done nothing but listen for years, you walk up to someone on the street and you have to have a meaningful conversation with them.
Whatās going to come out of your mouth? You know, is it going to be coherent? Is it going to be fluid? Are you going to be confident? Are you going to be able to pronounce the words properly, given that youāre pronouncing them for the first time? Of course not. Itās going to be — I think the question is kind of a red herring in a way. Because — itās an interesting theoretical problem, but itās also not very practical, because, you know, why would you not speak? Why would you not write? Why would you not read books? You know, why would you not do these things if youāve got to a good point in your listening?
So, I think itās an interesting question, but not really viable as a language learning strategy, should we say. But, thereās a bunch of interesting related topics that this throws up. So, Iām going to go through a few of these now, because it might be interesting to consider these in light of the question, and in light of my opinion that Iāve just given here.
So, letās start with the silent period. You may be familiar with this. Itās a stage thatās commonly thought of in second language acquisition, where you would go for a certain amount of time without speaking, or without attempting to speak. And the reason is that youāre kind of listening, and youāre trying to make sense of the language, and you donāt feel any particular need to speak. This is most evident in children, obviously, who you donāt put under any pressure to speak, necessarily. They can listen for a long time, and just kind of build their knowledge from listening. Itās how babies learn.
Itās how — if you imagine a — you know, I had a friend who moved to the UK, joined my school when he was, like, 14. I remember in the first year he didnāt say a word. But, in the second year he was already, like, chatting away with everybody. But, it was also a gradual thing. It didnāt happen — he didnāt suddenly start speaking one day.
The hypothesis is that, you know, as a learner youāre building up all this language competence during your silent period through really intently listening, processing the language. And, that all this processing goes on in your head. But really, itās nothing more than a concept, and itās very difficult to apply this anywhere else.
When you think about the case of children learning their first language, people so often — Iām always surprised when people say, you know, āKids have got the most amazing gift for languages. They just soak everything up.ā But, anyone who has spent a lot of time with kids will understand, will know that thatās just simply not the case. You know, babies will listen to their parents talking to them for years. But yet, how many years of trying does it take a child to actually learn to speak coherently and cohesively in their first language? You know, even a sort of nine- or ten-year-old is only halfway there, arenāt they? So, again, the idea of simply listening results in fluency just doesnāt stack up.
Now, lots of people tell me, and write comments saying, āI became fluent in English just by watching TV. Therefore, watching TV is the best way to learn a language.ā That may be true. That may have been their main method of learning English just by listening to the TV for years and years and years. But, the point is, how long did it take you? Often, these people will listen — like, in Scandinavia where all these foreign shows are dubbed into English — or, rather they are in English, because thatās how they were produced, right? Again, kids will listen to, and watch TV, in English for years and years and years.
The thing is, behind Balanās question, and what we want to know as adult language learners really is: whatās the faster way? You know, none of us have the time or the inclination to do what a teenager might do, and just binge-watch 10 years of Japanese drama to learn Japanese. Well, you know, thatās not an efficient way of doing things. It might be effective, but whoās got 10 years to learn a language?
You can do it much quicker than that. You could also think about immigrants in the country that you live. How many of them learn to speak perfect fluent English? And, how long does it take them? And, how much speaking do they do, as well, despite being surrounded by the language that theyāre — you know, their second language on a daily basis?
In virtually any practical situation it simply doesnāt stack up. But, as I said before, listening is probably the most important skill. So, while itās kind of probably a little bit silly to talk about becoming fluent by listening, you know, like I said earlier, I find myself spending more and more time working on it. And I find that especially with more difficult languages. You know, Iām having to spend a lot more time listening in Cantonese than I ever did with French, for example, because thereās just so much more I donāt know.
And, when it comes to speaking, like, I find all this all the time when Iām speaking Cantonese, when it comes to speaking thereās all these different — these problematic points where I donāt know how to express something. Like, I come to say something, and I have a total block. I draw a total blank, because I just donāt know the best way to express that thing in Cantonese. And, the way to learn how to do that is by listening to more of it, so that you get used to these different ways of learning, of speaking.
And, I think the last thing I want to say is that there are different kinds of listening. One of the things I found myself saying a lot recently is, that if you listen to, like, a foreign language in the background, you know, in the car, or whilst youāre cooking, or with the TV on whilst youāre doing the ironing, you know, I think — and this is contentious perhaps, but I think you are basically wasting your time. You know, Iāve done that a lot in the past, and I donāt think thereās any tangible learning from that whatsoever.
You call that passive listening, right? In order to make the most out of listening you need to be listening very, very actively. Extremely actively. Which means paying full attention to what youāre hearing. So, it means listening to words, listening out for words, trying to understand meaning, questioning why certain words are being used, trying to — you know, asking yourself actively, āWhat did he say there? Whatās happening here?ā
Itās hard work. You know, listening actively is really, really hard work. In fact, in the Fluent Spanish Academy we just had a training on this. Weāre doing this in this monthās challenge is all about actively listening and learning and perfecting the past tense in Spanish through active listening. Itās really, really hard.
And so, you know, if you did spend years doing nothing but active listening, and you were genuinely actively listening and really paying your full attention to the language, you will get very, very far. You will learn a lot of stuff. You wonāt be fluent, but you will be in a very, very good place.
So, Iām not sure if that was what you wanted to hear, Balan, but those are my thoughts on the topic anyway, becoming fluent only by listening.
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Now, at the end of every episode I like to leave you the resource on the topic of the show, and I mentioned earlier on the āsilent periodā in language acquisition. And I found a really good article from a blog I havenāt heard of before, Iām not sure if itās even active anymore. Ana Lomba is the writer, and sheās written an article called The Silent Period in Language Acquisition: Truth or Myth? If youād like to find out more about this I recommend looking at that article, because itās a very good summary of what the silent period is, or isnāt. You can find the link to that along with everything else weāve talked about today, and full transcripts, by going to iwillteachyoualanguage.com/episode179.
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