How To Master Personal Pronouns In Chinese Without The Stress

When learning Chinese, you’ll undoubtedly come across some aspects that you find challenging – after all, this is a language with a reputation for being among the very hardest for speakers of English to learn.

However, at the same time, some other areas of Chinese are extremely easy to master, and often, you are likely to find yourself pleasantly surprised about how simple the language is.

Chinese pronouns fall very much into the latter category, but it’s still something you need to cover early on. So to help you get started, here’s my guide to everything you need to know about this topic.

Subject And Object Personal Pronouns

Compare these two sentences in English:

• John bought an ice cream for Sarah, but Sarah didn’t want the ice cream, so Sarah gave the ice cream back to John.

• John bought an ice cream for Sarah, but she didn’t want it, so she gave it back to him.

The second version seems much more natural than the first because it uses words like “he”, “she” and “it” to avoid repeating “John”, “Sarah” and “ice cream” lots of times.

These words are what we call personal pronouns, and we use them like this to avoid unnecessary repetition.

Now look at the words used to replace “John”, and you’ll notice there are two: “he” and “him”.

Which one you use depends on whether “John” is the grammatical subject of the sentence or the grammatical object. 

If “John” is the subject, the one doing the action, we use “he” while if “John” is the object, the one receiving the action, we use “him”.

For this reason, “he” is called a subject pronoun and “him” is an object pronoun. Similarly, “she” is a subject pronoun while “her” is an object pronoun.

In English, sometimes subject and object pronouns are different, like “he” and “him”, but sometimes they are the same. For example, “you” is used as both the subject and object pronoun.

However, Chinese pronouns are much easier than in English because they don’t change depending on whether they are the subject or object of the sentence – Chinese subject and object pronouns are always the same. 

On the other hand, Chinese has a couple of extra personal pronouns compared to English, so let’s start by introducing them all.

Personal Pronouns In Chinese

Here are the personal pronouns in Chinese:

Singular

• 1^st person 我 wŏ (I, me)
• 2^nd person 你，您 nĭ, nín (you)
• 3^rd person 他，她，它 tā (he, she, it)

Plural

• 1^st person 我们，咱们 wŏmen, zánmen (we, us)
• 2^nd person 你们 nĭmen (you (plural))
• 3^rd person 他们，她们，它们 tāmen (they, them)

So now we need to go through this list and look at how they are all used.

First And Second Person Singular – 我wŏ，你nĭ，您 nín

The first person singular, 我 wŏ, is easy because it works the same as in English:

• 我喜欢猫 Wŏ xĭhuan māo (I like cats)
• 猫喜欢我 Māo xĭhuan wŏ (Cats like me)

Next, we have 你 nĭ and 您 nín, and these are also easy to understand. They both function as subject and object pronouns, but the second one is a more polite form.

The difference is similar to the difference between tu and vous in French, but in Chinese, 您 nín is less common than vous in French.

If you are talking to your boss, you might use 您 nín, depending on your company, but 你 nĭ is also common – though you should probably use 您 nín with your company CEO.

In hotels or restaurants, the staff might use 您 nín when they speak to you or they might use 你 nĭ – perhaps you’re more likely to hear the polite version in more upmarket establishments.

However, if you are just talking to a stranger in the street – and for most other everyday purposes like buying something in a shop – you can just use 你 nĭ because 您 nín would seem excessively formal.

Here are two examples:

• 你/您来自哪个国家？ Nĭ/nín láizi nă ge guójiā? (Which country are you from?)
• 我告诉你/您了吗？ Wŏ gàosu nĭ/nín le ma? (Did I tell you?)

Third Person Singular – 他 tā，她 tā，它 tā

In Chinese, there are three versions of the third person singular pronoun, but as you can see, they are all pronounced the same – tā.

This means when you are speaking, you don’t need to think about which one to use, and the meaning is usually obvious from the context.

The only time you need to pay attention is when you are writing because each one has a different Chinese character.

So what’s the difference? It’s very easy because it’s almost the same as in English. 他 is used for male humans, 她 is used for female humans and 它 is used for animals (and sometimes objects, but we’ll come to that in a moment).

Here are some examples:

• 他还没来 Tā hái méi lái (He hasn’t arrived yet)
• 她还没走 Tā hái méi zŏu (She hasn’t left yet)
• 我养蛇。它很可爱。 Wŏ yăng shé. Tā hĕn kĕài. (I keep a snake. He’s/it’s really cute)

Generally speaking, when you are talking about inanimate objects, you usually don’t use a pronoun at all.

For example:

• 电脑不能用了。 坏了。 Diànnăo bù néng yòng le. Huài le. (I can’t use (the/my) computer anymore. (It’s) broken.)

(literally, “Computer not can use. Broken.”)

• A: 啤酒是谁的？B: 是我的。
• A: Píjiŭ shì shéi de? B: Shì wŏ de.
• A: Whose is the beer? B: It’s mine.

(literally, “Beer be whose? Be mine.”)

However, 它 tā can be used for inanimate objects on the rare occasions when the meaning of the sentence would be ambiguous without it.

(See the sections below for more about the omission of Chinese pronouns and how Chinese possessive pronouns work.)

First Person Plural – 我们 wŏmen, 咱们 zánmen

In Chinese, the only personal pronoun that is even slightly tricky is the first person plural. And even this is very easy – it’s just a bit different from English.

The basic pronoun you use for “we” or “us” is 我们 wŏmen, and this can be used in all situations, just like in English.

However, Chinese also has another personal pronoun for the third person plural: 咱们 zánmen. The difference is that 咱们 zánmen specifically includes the person you are speaking to while 我们 wŏmen may include the person you are speaking to or it may not.

For example:

• A: 你们什么时候知道了？B: 我们刚知道。
• A: Nĭmen shénme shíhou zhīdào le? B: Wŏmen gāng zhīdào.
• A: When did you find out? B: We just found out.

• 咱们走吧！ Zánmen zŏu ba! (Let’s go!)
• 我们走吧！ Wŏmen zŏu ba! (Let’s go!)

In the first example, one person asks another when they found out – and since the group of people who “found out” doesn’t include the person who asked, they use 我们 wŏmen. In this case, you can’t use 咱们 zánmen because “we” doesn’t include the person you are speaking to.

However, in the second example, you can use 咱们 zánmen because when you say “let’s go”, you are including the person you are talking to. 

At the same time, you could also use 我们 wŏmen, as in the third example, to include the person you are talking to because it’s obvious from the context.

咱们 zánmen is common in Chinese dialects in the north of China but you won’t hear it in the south. However, even in the north, it’s optional, so you don’t need to use it yourself – but you’ll still need to understand the meaning because you will certainly hear people using it.

And a note on Chinese pronunciation – in Chinese pinyin, 咱们 is written zánmen, but the ‘n’ is practically silent, a bit like the ‘n’ in 什么 shénme (what).

Second Person Plural – 你们 nĭmen

The second person plural pronoun in Chinese is 你们 nĭmen, and it’s used when addressing more than one person.

There’s nothing complicated about this, but since standard English doesn’t have a separate pronoun for the second person plural, you just need to remember to use it instead of 你 nĭ when talking to two or more people.

(American English sometimes uses “y’all” for second person plurals, and thinking of this might help understand how it works in Chinese.)

An important point to note, however, is that there is no plural equivalent of the polite 您 nín form. If you need a polite way to address more than one person, you can use a sentence like this:

• 你们三位 Nĭmen sān wèi (You three (people))

位 wèi is a polite Chinese measure word for “person” or “people”, and using it like this makes the sentence sound more respectful.

Third Person Plural – 他们 tāmen, 她们 tāmen, 它们 tāmen

As with the singular, there are three possible forms for the third person plural, and just like the singular equivalent, the only difference is the way they are written – all three versions are pronounced tāmen.

The same rules apply here too: 他们 is used for male humans, 她们 for female humans and 它们 for animals (and occasionally, for things).

Omission Of Chinese Pronouns

We saw above that if you are talking about an inanimate object, you usually omit the pronoun 它 tā – but other pronouns are commonly omitted too.

In Chinese, if it’s obvious who or what you’re talking about, it’s normal to leave the pronoun out.

Look at this pair of examples:

• A: 你要来吗？B: 我要
• A: Nĭ yào lái ma? B: Wŏ yào
• A: Do you want to come? B: Yes

• A: 要来吗？B: 要
• A: Yào lái ma? B: Yào
• A: Do you want to come? B: Yes

In the first version, the pronouns 你 nĭ and 我 wŏ are used. However, from the context, it is obvious what both speakers are talking about, so the pronouns can be dropped.

There’s no hard and fast rule about this, but it’s extremely common – and especially in B’s answer, it sounds a bit unnatural to use 我 wŏ when the meaning is already so clear.

Incidentally, if you speak to Chinese people who are learning English, you may notice that many often drop pronouns like this in English too – and now you know why!

Possessive Pronouns In Chinese And Adjectives

There’s another type of pronoun that we need to mention, and that’s possessive pronouns, words like “mine”, “yours” etc.

In Chinese this is also extremely easy because you just use the same pronouns we’ve already seen with 的 de tacked on the end, like this:

• 是我的 Shì wŏ de (It’s mine)
• 是他们的 Shì tāmen de (It’s theirs)

Closely related to this are words like “my”, “your” etc. in English. Technically, these are possessive adjectives rather than pronouns, but they work in the same way.

To say that something belongs to somebody, you just use a personal pronoun with 的 de on the end, like this:

• 我的车 Wŏ de chē (My car)
• 这是他的手机 Zhè shì tā de shŏujī (This is his mobile telephone)

When there is a close connection between the owner and the thing being owned, 的 de can be dropped. In practice, this means you don’t usually use it with family members, like this:

• 我妹妹 Wŏ mèimei (My little sister)
• 她爸爸 Tā bàba (Her dad)

At other times, it is optional:

• 我女朋友/我的女朋友 Wŏ nǚpéngyou/wŏ de nǚpéngyou (My girlfriend)

Also, it is best to avoid repeating 的 de too many times in the same sentence, so you can leave it out, like this:

• 我手机的屏幕 wŏ shŏujī de píngmù (My mobile phone’s screen)

Rather than:

• 我的手机的屏幕 wŏ de shŏujī de píngmù (My mobile phone’s screen)

The second version is also correct, but it sounds too ‘clunky’.

Chinese Pronouns FAQ

Chinese Pronouns: An Easy Part Of Chinese Grammar

As we have seen, there is nothing difficult about Chinese pronouns apart from perhaps the fact that Chinese has a few more of them than English.

In Chinese, you don’t need to worry about choosing between subject and object pronouns, and very often you can leave them out altogether.

As ever, the best way to master pronouns is to follow the rules of StoryLearning and read in Madarin.

As you read and listen to stories in Chinese, you’ll see the whole range of Chinese personal pronouns over and over. And you'll soon be using them with confidence.

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